SLIXA's & Its Service Professional Directory


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Tired of not getting your ad approved and getting the run around?


Tired of horrible and inconsistent customer service that takes days to get back to you?


Tired of paying a lot on your ads and not getting your money's worth?


If you are not already on Slixa, it's time to take another look at Slixa as a platform for your advertising.


Started in 2012, Slixa has continued to distinguish itself for its high customer service standard.


Why choose Slixa:


They have real people that will answer your phone call and that are ready to help you resolve your issues and get your ad up right away.

Basic ads start at $1-$3 dollars a day and go up from there depending on upgrades. https://e.slixa.com/pricing

They don't have any minimum time commitments for your ad. So, you can create, delete, pause, resume ads as you wish, and they are only charged for the time your ad is live.

They also work on the credit system which has discounts pre-built in so you can reduce your per credit cost by as much as 20% when purchasing bulk credit packages. https://e.slixa.com/faq#credits


Slixa invests highly on SEO so that search results are in top positions in almost all of their markets with over 5 million views per month.

Slixa and *all* of its components are based in the EU. Their offices, people, and servers are all outside of the United States to keep your data secure and private.

Want to stay up to date on information for your market? They have an excellent blog with many topics and issues adult workers face. https://www.slixa.com/blog/


What about their Photo Policy?


It's pretty straight forward:
Slixa doesn't allow images with sex toys, a focus on genital areas, (clothed or nude), simulated sexual activity, etc... 

You can learn more about their publishing standards here: https://e.slixa.com/standards

Plus, if your photo is not approved they will tell you exactly why, no guessing or jumping through hoops.


ALL NEW:  new is that Slixa has introduced the first of its kind Service Professionals Directory.


"From personal assistants to tax professionals, to web design and development – every business needs support! At long last, we've developed an exclusive platform that highlights industry-friendly services and gives them their very own Slixa profile in which to showcase their unique offerings!"
"The Slixa Service Professionals Directory is unlike anything we've made available before (or for that matter, even seen anywhere else!) and it will be exactly the jump-off that providers need to connect with reputable photographers, web designers, and more."

https://www.slixa.com/blog/features/slixa-service-professionals-directory/


Find me on Slixa's Service Professionals Directory under photography in Miami.  



Use this Celebrity Secret for your next photo shoot

How is it that celebrities seem to always look fabulous in their photo shoots and music videos? They look so glamorous and bold at the same time!

What's their secret?

All Celebrities hire a Professional Stylist to keep their look eye-catching and draw attention to the song or photo shoot theme.


How does a Stylist Help? In a professional photo shoot, the stylist not only helps clients image in selecting the right clothes and accessories but also transforms the photographer’s vision (according to the client's needs) into reality. If the theme is a romantic encounter in a hotel room, the stylist also can add a vase of flowers and candles to a table, arrange flutes, and a bottle of champagne to the photo shoot. If the client wants to be a Victoria's Secret's Angel, the stylist can arrange all the props to make that vision real. At a beach photo shoot, the stylist can add many details to the photo shoot area such as shells to the sand, fresh coconut, beach umbrella, beautiful and colorful beach towel, a beautiful rustic hammock to give that real feeling of a beach environment that the photographer wants to accomplish.


Styling is all about the right details: clothes/accessories and objects. When it comes to finding the perfect outfits for a photo-shoot, in particular, you may feel extremely overwhelmed by the task-at-hand. Finding three or more complete outfits that will show off your best features and help YOU look your best behind the camera requires a lot of thought and planning behind the scenes in order to create a successful photo-shoot wardrobe.

To guarantee this type of success during your next photo-shoot, you should definitely hire a professional stylist to take the pressure off of you and to save you time and money.

Below are six reasons why:

1. TO EXPRESS YOURSELF & YOUR IDEAL IMAGE - A stylist will help with the ideal image of yourself and the thoughts inside your mind come to life in your photos. It’s the stylist’s job to pick your brain and to help you and the photographer figure out the best outfit options for your photo-shoot and video based on location, the season, the current on-trend fashions, your personality, and the theme of the shoot. Allow them to help you communicate who you are through your clothes and accessories. Rachel Zoe says it best, “Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak.”

2. SAVES YOU TIME, ENERGY & MONEY - Contrary to popular belief, a wardrobe stylist can actually save you time, energy and money. A stylist will save you many hours spent shopping for the wrong styles, energy, and the worst enemy of all – procrastination. With a professional stylist, you will also be less likely to second guess the outfits that you have planned out for your photo-shoot. You will be confident in the outfits your stylist helped you decide on, and you can then put that unnecessary time & energy toward something more important. And possibly one of the most important factors to notice: the cost of hiring a professional wardrobe stylist is well worth the upfront investment because she can provide you with plenty of insight on what styles best suit you. You can then apply this knowledge to your future shopping habits and even re-wear certain pieces that the fashion stylist helped style for your photo-shoot, for many years to come! It’s like the ‘gift’ that keeps on giving.

3. GET THE BEST FASHION ADVICE FROM A PROFESSIONAL WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE’S TALKING ABOUT! A professional wardrobe stylist is trained to work with all body types, personal styles, and ages. It is her job to make YOU feel comfortable and confident behind the camera and in the final images that the photographer produces. A stylist will help enhance your best assets and features in each piece of clothing you wear so that when you get behind the lens of the camera, you will look (and most importantly, FEEL) fabulous from every angle. Although some flowy dresses that you would typically wear to church or to a wedding may look amazing in person, when you get behind the camera, those pieces may not look as flattering – no matter what size you are. Maybe your favorite dress is a silhouette that does not look great behind the lens. Because your stylist has many alternative ways to style that particular piece so that the final image turns out to be everything that you could have hoped for and more.

4. EXUDE KILLER CONFIDENCE THAT YOU DIDN’T EVEN KNOW YOU HAD - Once you have met with a professional stylist, you will show up to your photo-shoot with the preparation and confidence that you didn’t even know existed. If you look amazing and you feel fabulous, then that confidence will definitely show when you step behind the camera and in your final images. Not to mention, you will have a much more fun, exciting, and all around enjoyable experience during your photo-shoot. Hiring a stylist allows you to be bold and to even step outside of your comfort zone. With a stylist’s help, you can show off a different side of yourself that some people may not know or you can take a chance on that new trend that you’ve been dying to try. Or perhaps you just want to showcase your everyday style. Let a stylist help you make that outfit photo-shoot-ready!

5. HELP YOU TO BE CREATIVE TRYING SOMETHING NEW - Always think about having a photo or video shoot dressed like your favorite pop star, but you feel that is very hard to find all the elements to make your dream come true? The stylist can recreate your pop star’s style transforming your photo shoot into a very special one saving you time and money. Have you thought how it would be fun having a photo/video shoot dressed like Taylor Swift, Shakira, Rihanna, or JLo?

6. GET THE FULL PACKAGE FOR A GUARANTEED FLAWLESS FINISH - You found your professional photographer to provide you with amazing images to last a lifetime. You have a professional hair and makeup artist to get you all glammed up before the shoot. But one major piece of the puzzle is missing … your wardrobe! The outfits that you choose to wear during your photo-shoot are just as important as the two previous elements, so it’s best to leave these three factors in a professional’s hands. Hiring a wardrobe stylist only makes YOUR and the photographer’s job easier. With all three pieces of this beautiful puzzle (the photographer, the HMU team, and the wardrobe stylist), your final images from your photo-shoot are guaranteed to turn out even more amazing than you are imagining in your head. All three elements work together simultaneously to ensure the best possible outcome from your photo-shoot.

18 Reasons Why EROS Rejected your Photo/Ad 


As I discover new tips, I will update this post, but keep in mind that nothing posted here should be taken as legal advice or any form of a guarantee. Eros determines when and how they apply their advertisement rules.



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1: You do not show your face clearly in your photos, and

  • You have not submitted at least one unaltered/unedited photo where your face is clearly visible wearing the same outfit as in the outfits being submitted for your current ad.
  • Glasses, hats, hair, or partially visible faces are not acceptable to fulfill this new requirement.
  • Submit the unaltered photos through the Eros Upload Document Button only.


2: You have unauthorized text on your photo or ad.

  • Your website or your email address is on your photo or video.
  • Your provider name has xxx or something that implies sex.
  • The wording in your ad implies you are selling sex or sexual acts.
  • Small Photographer's Logo is still ok. ( allowed by copyright laws).


3: You have Implied Bottomless in your photos.

  • It looks like you are not wearing anything below the waist in your photo.
  • You are not wearing any panties even if nothing is showing.
  • You are removing your panties or they are not up all the way.
  • You have a coat or robe on and it looks like you could be nude underneath it.
  • You have not make it clear that you are wearing panties or something below your waist in your photo.


4: Your panties or bottom is sheer, semi-transparent or thin fabric.

  • Your pubic area is not entirely covered even if nothing is showing.
  • Your skin or pubic hairs are showing through your panties/bottoms.
  • Yes, this disqualifies almost all lingerie panties.


5: Your panties/bikini bottom is too small and or too narrow.

  • Your entire crotch and pubic area are not covered even if nothing is showing.
  • Your groin is showing on the side of the panties/bottom.


6: You have a thin Bikini/Panty Side Straps.

  • You are wearing a g-string.
  • You are wearing a thong.
  • You are wearing a string bikini.
  • Mainly only your bottom straps show and they are narrower than 1 inch.


7: Your butt crack area is showing or almost showing.

  • Your inner part of your crotch area is showing in your photo.
  • It looks like you can see in between your legs even if it's just a shadow.


8: You have a camel toe -even it isn't a real camel toe.

  • Your fabric is not flat and the shadow looks like it could be a camel toe.
  • Your panties/bottom outline your mons pubis.


9: Your Crotch area is showing with panties even if covered.

  • The main focus of your photos is your pubic area even if completely covered.
  • Your legs are wide opened and facing the camera even if nothing is showing.

  • Your legs are open from the back and your crotch area can be seen even if completely covered.


10: Your photo is of a Fetish Theme.

  • Your photos show a fetish that is sexual or could be sexual.


11: Your photo has an illegal theme.

  • Your photo shows a fantasy theme that implies you are under 18 years of age.
  • You use words that suggest you are under 18 years old or that a minor would use.
  • Your photo shows or implies something illegal, including drugs or unlawful activity.
  • Your photo depicts a sexual act real or implied.


12: You are touching yourself.

  • Your photo shows you with your hands between your legs.
  • You are playing with your boobs or pulling on your nipples.


13: You are using or showing a Sex Toy in your photo.

  • You have a sex toy in your photo even if it's in the back.
  • You have other adult toys in your photo such as whips and paddles.
  • You are holding something that is penis shape in your photo.


14: You show Pain, Torture, or any form of Violence in your photo.

  • Your facial expression shows pain, violence, or aggression, real or acting.


15: Your photo shows an S&M or humiliation act real or fantasy.

  • Your photo shows or implies violence of any kind real or simulated.
  • Your photo displays domination, humiliation, or adult role-playing.


16: You have altered/Photoshopped your photo to cover the problem area.

  • The unapproved parts of your photos have been blurred or photoshopped to try to cover them.
  • Don't try to fix the photo. Eros can tell if the photo has been edited.


17: You submitted photos of a rejected outfit.

  • You are submitting a photo with the same outfit that was already rejected but Eros, even if it's an approved pose.
  • Don't risk having the outfit block if the panties do not cover you up properly.


18: Eros has rejected your photos/ad have many times.

  • The more often Eros rejects your ad, the harder it is to have your ad/photos approved.

  • If you change your photos on and ad that was approved Eros will now look at your photos/ad more closely.
  • If you are not sure that your photo or ad will not be approved don't submit it.



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Lingerie for your Body Type - how to balance your curves


Just as there is that particular outfit of clothing that when you put it on you feel confident, powerfully, and happy, every piece of lingerie you slip on should leave you feeling this same way plus intimately more powerfully sexy.

Not all lingeries styles look the best on all body types and knowing which type of lingerie to wear can make all the difference especially for your glamour photoshoot. Fashion experts today have created 11 categories to give you more precise advice when choosing your best lingerie.

Find the body type that is most similar to you and read below the tips for lingeries that help balance out your body shape. Know that your body shape is beautiful, and you need to focus on your best assets and highlight them while keeping in mind what works best for you. Although you can wear many different types of lingerie below are the tips on what you need to include so that your body shape is showed off in the best light. Read through the tips especially for your body type.

Apple Shape Celebrities: Jennifer Hudson, Catherine Zeta Jones

Women with apple-shaped bodies have a waistline that is your widest measurement, and your hips and bust are not as wide in comparison to your midsection. Lingerie that elongates the line of your body will work great on you — bodysuits lingerie with deep V-necks are for you. The one-piece alternative to a bra and undies will highlight your décolletage and show off some tasteful skin, too. If you’re busty, look for options with side boning at the breasts, or underwire for extra support and coverage. Avoid any lingerie that will add volume to your mid section.

Ballerina Shape Celebrities: Model Karlie Kloss, Natalie Portman in Black Swan

This is a gorgeous long, lean build. You have legs that go on for days and understated curves. You are slender with a muscular frame and can wear longline bras, high-waisted underwear, and other eclectic lingerie with ease. Knowing you have ample room to experiment, recommended is the slightly edgy, totally sexy halter-neck bra for your next romantic night in — its sporty silhouette will definitely vibe with your frame. Paired with a matching thong or brief, the combination will highlight your athletic limbs — and your style prowess. Choose a shaped bust inset and halter neck to broaden your shoulders and highlight your bust. Try out an empire waist to show off your long lines.

Busty Celebrity: Kate Upton

A lot of "sexy" lingerie isn't designed with the busty woman in mind. Know your breast type — whether it’s splayed, wide-set, a combination of the two, or something else. Fashionable underwire options are available to you — as long as you know where to look. A balconette or demi style bra for your shape; the lower-cut cups will tastefully showcase your natural curves. As for bottoms, try ones with thicker waistbands, like high-waisted briefs or boyshorts, to help balance your larger top. You have beautiful curves, with your bust being proportionally larger than your hips or waist so show them off.

Short Torso Celebrity: Solange

Your waist is naturally high and your legs extra-long. Steer clear of high-waisted bottoms that will shorten your torso; instead, craft the appearance of a longer midsection with low-rise underwear. In the spirit of "sexy lingerie," try hipsters as a sassy alternative to more basic, low-rise bikinis. The added fabric they provide along your sides with help elongate your line, too. Congratulations, you have long, gorgeous legs! A longline lace bodice will elongate your upper body.

Carrot Shape Celebrity: Angelina Jolie

Your body is wider on top and gets slimmer on the way down. Try switching up your standard matching bra-and-thong routine and layer on a babydoll chemise or slip that will flatter your broader-set shoulders. Not only are they practical intimates to pair with see-through dresses, the addition of lace and other romantic details makes the pieces alluring when worn alone. The trick is making sure that whatever intimate you choose has a flared bottom to help promote symmetry. You're blessed with slim legs and ankles, broad shoulders, and a waist and hips that are relatively similar in size. It's also sometimes referred to as an inverted triangle shape. Think Old Hollywood glamor - insets at the waist and bust will emphasize your curves, and lace at the hem balances out your shoulders while showing off your legs.

Small Chest Celebrity: Taylor Swift, Miley Cyrus

If you don’t need much in the way of support on top — and sometimes just go braless altogether — you have more flexibility than most in the underwear department. That said, it's possible the bras you do wear have constantly slipping straps that ail you on date night. Either way, recommended are T-strap and racerback bralettes; they're slightly sporty, flirty, and comfortable enough to wear all day. Feeling comfortable in your intimates really does make all the difference. Whether you’re long and lanky or otherwise curvy, your bustline is petite.

Long Torso Celebrity: Kendall Jenner, Olivia Wilde

If you have a long torso and short legs, the lingerie style best suited to you couldn’t be more on-trend this season: high-waisted underwear is all for you. The retro silhouette is flattering on a number of shapes. For yours, it’ll shorten your midsection and elongate your limbs — it's a no-brainer. Shop a few playfully printed bottoms, then pair them with a black bra on top for an effortless, put-together look. All this means is that, overall, the top half of your body - from your shoulders to your waist - is longer than the bottom half. It's also sometimes called "long-waisted.”You have a defined waist to be envied! Pick a lace bralette insert or an empire waist to highlight your elegant proportions. Take advantage of being able to wear a long flowing skirt with spaghetti straps to emphasize your upper body.

Ruler Celebrity: Gwyneth Paltrow

As the name suggests, ruler-shaped bodies are straight throughout — without much variation between one’s shoulder, waist, or hip. The key is finding undergarments that'll subtly enhance your curves. Unlike traditional bras with bands that are an inch or 2 wide, longline bras and bralettes extend farther down the torso for a retro feel will help fill out your shape a bit. They're the crop tops of lingerie and, like high-waisted underwear, are often viewed as an intentional fashion statement. The good news for you: You have a fabulously long, straight line with similar measurements from shoulder to waist to hip like a supermodel. Choose an elongated lace bodice but make sure it features lace insets at the hips to give a little definition.

Hourglass Shape Celebrity: Kim Kardashian

Hourglass figures are easy to identify because they’re symmetrical: Your chest and hips are equally proportioned, and your waistline is your narrowest measurement. Use your “classic” shape to your advantage, and add a suspender belt to your bra-and-panty set. The fancy adornment (its original, intended purpose was to keep one's stockings from slipping) will place the emphasis firmly on your narrow waist. The finished look it creates is classically sexy, like your shape. You have a classic pin-up girl shape with a nipped in waist and full curves in your chest and hips.

Petit & Compact Shape Celebrity: Ariana Grande

If you’re petite all over, you can get away with wearing less-supportive styles that bustier and fuller-figured women might shy away from — lingerie sets with soft cups, for example. While underwire offers great additional shape, for you, wireless bras are by no means a deal breaker. They might actually be your preferred style. So, go ahead: You have the opportunity to shop the less "functional" pieces some ladies can merely admire from afar. Like a gymnast, petite and compact women are small and mighty in all respects. Look for spaghetti straps and a deep V-neck inset to elongate your neck and torso.

Petit & Compact Shape Celebrity: Ariana Grande

If you’re petite all over, you can get away with wearing less-supportive styles that bustier and fuller-figured women might shy away from — lingerie sets with soft cups, for example. While underwire offers great additional shape, for you, wireless bras are by no means a deal breaker. They might actually be your preferred style. So, go ahead: You have the opportunity to shop the less "functional" pieces some ladies can merely admire from afar. Like a gymnast, petite and compact women are small and mighty in all respects. Look for spaghetti straps and a deep V-neck inset to elongate your neck and torso.

Need more help? Contact me directly before your shoot so that we can review each of your outfits and make your next glamour photo-shoot amazing!

Luxury Marketing Strategy

Luxury is the state of high comfort and extravagant living. Luxury appeals to and feeds our desires, fantasies, and lust. You don’t need a luxury, but you want it. Luxury is subjective, and it appeals to the five senses so, it can deliver incredible emotional benefits. Luxury is highly desirable because they are exclusive, sophisticated, of unique quality, and in good taste. People buy luxury products to feel unique and apart from the crowd, to feel superior and privileged, and to feel valued and important.




The successful companion provider has everything to do with luxury.




A luxury companion should provide an experience that is refined aesthetic, and that conveys sensuality, indulgence with a hint of the extravaganza. In a luxury compaion's fantasy world, a man feels sexier, more powerful, and more content than in his daily world. A luxury provider can transform a man’s self-perception and leave him feeling - not ordinary but extraordinary!




She should appeal to the man’s deep desire to break with his daily routine and to provide him with the illusion of happiness at least for during the encounter.




So, how do you market yourself as a Luxury Provider and not just another provider?




To be a luxury provider, you must look and act like a luxury provider. Yes, your looks and personality are critical, but through proper *marketing, you can create a *brand of yourself that is irresistible to all men.








Always Post Amazing Ads (*branding)

*To Learn about Marketing Definitions click here



Remember that your ads are there to persuade your target clients to what to know more information about you either by calling you or going to your site. The wording in your ads is a work in process, and you need to adjust it depending on what works continuously. Don’t just state a physical description. You need to communicate what is different about you and how your client will feel when he is with you. You need to have a balance between not too long and not enough information. Keep track of which ads work, and if it stops getting the same success in a few weeks, you need to try new wording. You must consistently update your profile. An effective ad and site profile should include a professional description about yourself. It should provide insight that speaks directly to your target clients. Share some of your tasteful, appropriate innermost thoughts or feelings, without revealing too much. Within the profile, you must also tell your client why he should book you. Whether that’s because you provide individualized attention or special tricks you learned from a courtesan, it really doesn’t matter, as long as it’s something your client will want to experience. Guide his mind away from reality into the fantasy world you will take him to, and let him know how an encounter with you will leaving him feeling. Sensual moments of pleasure are worth paying more: well-being, health, youth, and indulgence.


Men are Visual

They need to first fall for you through your photos before they start reading your ad, and consider contacting you. So your photos are his first impressions of you. You will need to post not just great images, but the right style of photos in both your ad and on your site. Hire a professional photographer that specializes in provider photography, and post only the polished, edited images. As you work to perfect your ads, be sure to emphasize your shape and personality through the photos you post and include in your marketing. An experienced photographer will know how to capture your best angles through the proper poses and lighting. The quality and style of the photos play a crucial role in targeting your luxury clients. Ever see a mediocre photo used to advertise a luxury product? A luxury product uses exceptional quality in every detail. The same should apply to you- your brand from your head to your toes. If you want to market yourself as a luxury provider, all of your photos need to be consistent in quality and style. (The photos should not be pornographic – they can show off your figure in other ways.). Men that seek top companions want to feel that you are highly turned on only with them, or that it takes a special kind of man to bring out your wild side.


Your photos are only as good as your worst photo

A man will be impressed by your best photos, but he will also remember your worst ones. Avoid the tendency to want to post too many images of the similar poses, unless they have something new to offer visually. Less is more. It’s better to have eight excellent photos than 20 or more with a few images that do not communicate the same level of luxury and sex appeal. Do not post any picture that is not a 10. Even if you can’t afford professional photos, research online about how to take better glamour photos that are flattering until you can afford a to invest in a professional glamour photoshoot. Learn to utilize simple photo editing software to minimize some of the flaws in your photo. Experiment with different angles that catch your best sides, being ever mindful of concealing your face if you’re not comfortable with revealing your identity. In addition to covering your face, flattering photos can also help disguise any less appealing areas such as a small tummy pouch, as long as your overall figure is not deceiving. Your outfits and background location in your photos all also need to send the same luxury, exclusive, sensual, message. The professional photographer will also guide you on the styling so that it projects the luxury style, or you can also hire a stylist so that you don't have to stress over having the right outfits and accessories and so that your shoot is all better planned.




Keep Yourself in Good Physical condition but also embrace yourself

Make exercise and fitness a priority if you do not do so already as well always eating a healthy diet. A healthy diet is a lifestyle it's not temporary. Most women do not eat enough protein or fiber and the typical American diet includes too many carbs. Yes, we need carbs for energy but we also need enough protein and fiber. Part of your good physical condition also includes stamina and endurance. As you grow more fit, your endurance for activities with your clients also increases, which is a win-win for both of you. Some clients prefer a lean woman, others like the muscle look on a woman; others, though, simply want a woman to be fit and somewhat toned. While other men are totally into the super curvy women, don't try to be what you are not. Be the best you, you can be. It all starts with accepting yourself and loving the body you have. Read more about embracing yourself: http://www.wikihow.com/Embrace-Your-Flaws To get that shape, work out doing cardio exercises and then focus attention to build your booty. If you’re not a busty woman, don’t worry about it. If you are a curvy woman, embrace that and use your best assets in your favor. Choose some lingeries that fit perfectly for your body type: read more here: https://sexyluxstudio.com/essays/2019/05/lingerie-for-your-body-type-how-to-balance-your-curves/ Practice elegant, sexy poses in front of the mirror. Search for Ashley Graham on Google images as an example. Remember to market the experience the man will have with your encounter and not just your measurements.


A smile is a universal facial expression: that communicates happiness and men like to be around happy women

Men want to escape the demand and reality of work to a time of relaxed pleasure. A smile can also signal a sign of confidence or agreement. Although women smile more than men, older women smile less than younger women, so if you want to show your youthful side, remember to smile often and especially the first time you meet your client. Many providers think they have to be sullen, pouty and lusty-faced in their photos and person all the time. Clients want to visit with companions who are happy and enjoyable to be around. When you project this through your photos in your marketing, it’s a direct way to allow clients to discover that an encounter spent with you is going to be a good time. A smile can speak volumes about your personality and is the best addition to your profile information you can have. If your profile teases the potential client about your sense of humor and attraction to fun, your smile guarantees it. If your profile suggests you’re a smart ass, your smile will confirm it. A profile that informs the client you are sweet and kind is validated further with a charming grin. Successful men read lots into the smile you give them; if you don’t show your face in your ad, try showing just your lips.


The companions every client wants to book all have great attitudes

A companion that is predominantly negative about everything in her life, including her clients, isn’t going to attract much business, especially when word about her outlook becomes known. Professional Men are drawn to women who are upbeat, happy and passionate. They want to spend time with a female who embodies youthful inspiration and optimism. Even if this is difficult for you to master, you need to find a way to project this to clients. After all, you are playing a role a companion. Dig deep within yourself and find your always optimistic young woman as a way to push yourself to be a happier provider. The “it” companions of the moment are likely one who consistently makes her clients feel like they are her favorites and that she loves spending time with them. To become more popular, you must translate your enthusiasm for clients to a passion for them they understand. Don’t indulge in self-criticism or disparaging comments against yourself. When clients book encounters, they don’t want to spend time building a companion up to feel proud of herself; they want one who is instantly ready to dole out the attention on them.


Confidence equates with Sexiness


Confidence is a huge factor in becoming the coveted companion. When a woman is sure of herself, that comes across as a sign to men that she will be great in bed and that she’s someone you want to get to know. Confidence is more important than the size of her breast, or ass, or the narrowness of her waist. Experts always tell people to “fake it until you make it,” and this piece of advice rings true for companions, too. If you’re not entirely sure of yourself or maintain doubts about your abilities with clients, hide them and pretend they don’t exist. Focus on being the best you can be, showcasing your beauty to the max and providing the most fulfilling experiences for clients possible. If you believe in yourself, clients will, too. It’s a contagious thing that you can control through projecting self-esteem and contentment with yourself. Practice your confident look in front of the mirror, with friends, and on strangers, you meet throughout your normal day, until it becomes so natural you do it all of the time.



Give some examples and a few details



Even though you may focus on your clients, you must tell them you do in your profile, so they know this. And, it’s not enough to blatantly say you provide “client-focused” services. You must explain through examples how you cater to your clients and their needs. Demonstrate that you are concerned with pleasing your clients in ways they want, instead of what makes you happy. Ensure potential clients that their comfort and pleasure is your priority. Emphasize to clients that you are willing to go the extra mile to make them happy. Companions who succeed at high levels provide personalized experiences that are far from hum-drum or typical. They veer from the “usual” in order to make their clients happy through special requests. Tell briefly about your efforts, so other clients know you will go above and beyond for their desires. You will need to provide details about this in your profile and marketing materials in order for clients to fully understand the extent to which you are willing to go to make them happy. Many providers claim this same approach, but they provide no evidence. Think of an example where you made extra effort to give your client something special he wanted. Maybe you made him a birthday cake and sang to him while you were naked. Or, perhaps you worked out a role-play scenario a client had been fantasizing about.


Really Listen to your Clients

A top companion woman markets herself as the best around because she feels she is. When you tell clients something repeatedly, they will begin to believe it. By putting information in your profile or other marketing materials that indicate you are top-rated, most-preferred or simply the best you inject mental attitudes about yourself in your clients’ brains. Encourage them to think of you as upscale by labelling yourself as “exclusive” and limiting your availability. (A luxury companion isn’t available every time a client tries to book.) Charge rates that make your clients believe you are not the run-of-the-mill companion because men always want the best. Appealing to their desire for quality may earn a higher level of success if you use these tips.

FOSTA: The Law and how it affects us all



President Trump signed into law on April, 11th 2018 the bill, nicknamed “FOSTA” for its title, “Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. This new law gives States and the US government greater power to prosecute websites that host sex-trafficking ads. Victims and state attorneys general can now file lawsuits against these sites. On April 3, 2018, the US government arrested executives from Backpage.com on a 93-count indictment that alleges that the website facilitated prostitution and laundered tens of millions of dollars in profit, and for years teenage girls including minors were advertised and sold for sex on the Backpage site. Some of the girls were forced into prostitution and killed by the men they met from the Backpage ad.

The FBI took action against Backpage's executives and shut down Backpage’s classified ad websites around the world and moved to seize houses and bank accounts around the United States days before the bill became law, which led some to question why FOSTA was needed if such action was able to be taken without it.

“FOSTA gives prosecutors the tools they need,” said Rep. Ann Wagner (R- Mo.), chief sponsor of the bill, “to ensure that no online business can ever approach the size of Backpage again.” Civil liberties activists criticized the bill as too broad, creating a new disadvantage for websites that had previously been protected by the Communications Decency Act for content posted by third parties. Several sites, such as Craigslist, began shutting down sections that might be seen as sex-related after the bill passed the Senate last month, and Rep. Wagner said online sex-related advertising revenue had declined 87 percent in the past 60 days even before the president signed the law.

Supporters for sex workers say that by shutting down adult content ad sites, FOSTA deprives sex workers of a safe place to screen customers, as well as removing a tool for law enforcement to track pimps, locate missing children and build criminal cases.

“Shutting down every service provider and website will not end sex trafficking,” said Jean Bruggeman, executive director of Freedom Network USA, a coalition of anti-trafficking advocates. “What it will do is push traffickers to overseas websites that are beyond the reach of law enforcement, making it harder to prosecute them and harder to find them through the victims.”

Horror stories from websites such as Backpage, in which young girls were trafficked for months or even years, created a wave of frustration that the websites couldn’t be forced to stop hosting the ads and that the victims couldn’t sue the sites for damages. The federal indictment of Backpage officials described one girl who was prostituted on Backpage from ages 14 to 19, saying she was gang-raped, choked to the point of seizures and forced to perform sex acts at gunpoint.

Internal emails captured by the FBI demonstrated that Backpage officials edited ads, or advised customers how to write their ads so that words indicating that a person was a “teen” or “young” or “fresh” were substituted, yet the ad itself would remain online and the victim still prostituted.

The report issued by the Senate committee in January 2017 boiled with anger, declaring that “Backpage knows that it facilitates prostitution and child sex trafficking” and that “Backpage’s public defense is a fiction.” An investigation by The Washington Post found that Backpage was not only deeply involved in creating ad content but also soliciting prostitutes from other websites to advertise on Backpage. The FBI later obtained documents, and prosecutors cited them in the new indictment as evidence that “Backpage often affirmatively creates the content of the illegal prostitution ads being published.”

So in April 2017, Rep Ann Wagner (R- Mo.) introduced FOSTA in the House, and Sen. Rob Portman (R-Ohio), who had overseen the Senate investigation of Backpage, introduced SESTA — the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act — last August. Sen. Ron Wyden (D-Ore.), one of the original authors of the Communications Decency Act, was one of the two “no” votes, saying it was a mistake to change the law and would have unforeseen consequences for the Internet.

FOSTA amends the “Mann Act,” prohibiting interstate prostitution, by adding a new section prohibiting using a website to “promote or facilitate the prostitution of another person.”

FOSTA also amends the law on sex trafficking of children to clarify “participating in a venture” as “knowingly assisting, supporting or facilitating a violation” of the law.

FOSTA also amends the law on sex trafficking of children to clarify “participating in a venture” as “knowingly assisting, supporting or facilitating a violation” of the law.

And FOSTA creates the ability for state attorneys general to bring civil suits against violators of federal prostitution laws.

Critics still feel the new law creates too much opportunity for lawsuits against websites for content they didn’t post and didn’t know about. Lola, a community organizer with Survivors Against SESTA, commented that this is literally a life-or-death law for sex workers. “I know so many people who were able to start working indoors or leave their exploitative situations because of Backpage and Craigslist,” she said. “They were able to screen for clients and keep themselves safe and save up money to leave the people exploiting them. And now that those sites are down, people are going back to pimps. Pimps are texting providers every day saying ‘the game’s changed. You need me.’”

“That’s the difficult position a FOSTA law puts operators in,” Llansó said, creating reluctant censorship by sites fearful of liability. Ads by sex workers are already closing and moving to less well-known or dark websites, said Kimberly Mehlman-Orozco, an author and expert witness on human trafficking. Or they’re moving to social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter, “where they’re able to hide under the veneer of a legitimate social media account,” she said. 

As a result of this new law, TER has block access to their website from the United States until the law has been repealed or amended, or TER has found a way to sufficiently address any legal concerns created by the new law. TER is not alone in responding to this threat to your First Amendment Rights: Craigslist has pulled all of its Personal Ads, Reddit has closed many Subreddits and sites such as CityVibe and Men4RentNow have gone completely dark. Other websites have taken or are expected to make similar actions. Adult provider site Eros has self-censored the content and images they now allow in their ads leading to many ads and images being deleted.

It's still not clear how the FOSTA law will be enforced to limit online ads. Only time will tell if this is just the start of more to come. 

What you can do now is to update your photos with classy glamour images that adhere to the new Eros Standards that that can be posted in mainstream social media accounts.