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18 Reasons Why EROS Rejected your Photo/Ad 

As I discover new tips, I will update this post, but keep in mind that nothing posted here should be taken as legal advice or any form of guarantee. Eros determines when and how they apply their advertisement rules.


1: You do not show your face clearly in your photos, and

  • You have not submitted at least one unaltered/unedited photo where your face is clearly visible wearing the same outfit as the outfits submitted for your current ad.
  • Glasses, hats, hair, or partially visible faces are not acceptable to fulfill this new requirement.
  • Submit the unaltered photos through the Eros Upload Document Button only.

2: You have unauthorized text on your photo or ad.

  • Your website or your email address is on your photo or video.
  • Your provider name has xxx or something that implies sex.
  • The wording in your ad implies you are selling sex or sexual acts.
  • Small Photographer's Logo is still ok. ( allowed by copyright laws).

3: You have Implied Bottomless in your photos.

  • It looks like you are not wearing anything below the waist in your photo.
  • You are not wearing any panties even if nothing is showing.
  • You are removing your panties, or they are not up all the way.
  • You have a coat or robe on, and it looks like you could be nude underneath it.
  • You have not made it clear that you are wearing panties or something below your waist in your photo.

4: Your panties or bottom are sheer, semi-transparent, or thin fabric.

  • Your pubic area is not entirely covered, even if nothing is showing.
  • Your skin or pubic hairs are showing through your panties/bottoms.
  • Yes, this disqualifies almost all lingerie panties.

5: Your panties/bikini bottom is too small and or too narrow.

  • Your entire crotch and pubic area are not covered even if nothing is showing.
  • Your groin is showing on the side of the panties/bottom.

6: You have thin Bikini/Panty Side Straps.

  • You are wearing a g-string.
  • You are wearing a thong.
  • You are wearing a string bikini.
  • Mainly only your bottom straps show, and they are narrower than 1 inch.

7: Your butt crack area is showing or almost showing.

  • Your inner part of your crotch area is showing in your photo.
  • It looks like you can see in between your legs, even if it's just a shadow.

8: You have a camel toe -even it isn't an actual camel toe.

  • Your fabric is not flat, and the shadow looks like it could be a camel toe.
  • Your panties/bottom outline your mons pubis.

9: Your Crotch area is showing with panties even if covered.

  • The main focus of your photos is your pubic area, even if completely covered.
  • Your legs are wide opened and facing the camera even if nothing is showing.

  • Your legs are open from the back, and your crotch area can be seen even if completely covered.

10: Your photo is of a Fetish Theme.

  • Your photos show a fetish that is sexual or could be sexual.

11: Your photo has an illegal theme.

  • Your photo shows a fantasy theme that implies you are under 18 years of age.
  • You use words that suggest you are under 18 years old or that a minor would use.
  • Your photo shows or implies something illegal, including drugs or unlawful activity.
  • Your photo depicts a sexual act, actual or implied.

12: You are touching yourself.

  • Your photo shows you with your hands between your legs.
  • You are playing with your boobs or pulling on your nipples.

13: You are using or showing a Sex Toy in your photo.

  • You have a sex toy in your photo, even if it's in the back.
  • You have other adult toys in your photos, such as whips and paddles.
  • You are holding something that is a penis shape in your photo.

14: You show Pain, Torture, or any form of Violence in your photo.

  • Your facial expression shows pain, violence, or aggression, actual or acting.

15: Your photo shows an S&M or humiliation act real or fantasy.

  • Your photo shows or implies violence of any kind, actual or simulated.
  • Your photo displays domination, humiliation, or adult role-playing.

16: You have altered/Photoshopped your photo to cover the problem area.

  • The unapproved parts of your photos have been blurred or photoshopped to try to cover them.
  • Don't try to fix the photo. Eros can tell if the image has been edited.

17: You submitted photos of a rejected outfit.

  • You are submitting a photo with the same outfit that was already rejected but Eros, even if it's an approved pose.
  • Don't risk having the outfit block if the panties do not cover you up adequately.

18: Eros has rejected your photos/ad have many times.

  • The more often Eros rejects your ad, the harder it is to have your ad/photos approved.

  • If you change your photos on an approved ad, Eros will look at your photos/ad more closely.
  • If you are not sure that your photo or ad will not be approved, don't submit it.


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6)Try to do your own makeup because you don't think a pro makeup artist is worth it

This is a professional glamour photoshoot, and you should look polished and not how you typically look every day. Yes, professional makeup makes all the difference and is worth the investment. High-definition photography and strobe lights will capture more of your beauty and flaws, so you need to have your makeup done professionally. Some women believe that natural makeup is the way to go since they do not want to have much makeup in their photos. To achieve a beautiful natural make-up look like the ones you see in magazines and all professional sites, you will always need a professional makeup artist. A Pro Makeup Artist uses the right colors and a combination of make-up pigments that glow in a smooth, flattering way. There is no such thing as having a little make-up and achieving a natural look on your own. A natural makeup look involves more advanced steps, which include applying the right makeup that conceals your blemishes and dark spots, contouring and sculpturing your facial features, and thinning out your face as well as warming up your skin tone in the areas needed. Then, a highlighter is added to your cheekbones which brings them out and gives a subtle glow to the face. Eyebrows are filled in and defining, and the lips while making sure the t-zone stays matte for a glowing finish. Remember that photography is not real life. Many things are not noticeable in real life, but they will be apparent in a photograph since you can stare at them forever. Go all the way with a professional Glamour look!

Achieving Professional Photos that look amazing from top to bottom is my passion, but you can't show up unprepared to have great results. A professional photoshoot includes having the right outfits, locations, backgrounds, lighting, makeup, angles, styling, manicure, and many other details than just taking a regular snap photo. Check out my before and after of real women to see my final results.


7) Wear Jeans, tight socks, or any other tight outfits on the day of your shoot

You want your body and skin to be as flawless as possible, and any clothing that is not loose-fitting will leave Marks on your skin that can take over an hour to disappear. These marks will be obvious in high-resolution photos, so please wear loose-fitting clothes to your shoot. Yes, they can be photoshopped out, but the more your skin needs to be edited, the more work it will be and the harder it will become to leave your skin looking natural.


8) Buy a bikini for your shoot that covers up more because you are not feeling 100% confident about your body

Choose a swimsuit that lays flat on your body with No excess fabric wrinkling. The material should lay flat like a tight pair of jeans. It needs to be suitable for your body type. The colors and prints need to enhance your natural skin color. Go for solid colors that look sophisticated. Keep in mind that the focus is on you and not your bikini (unless this is a bikini catalog shoot). Tops need to have good support if you need a natural lift. If your body is not very toned, do not choose a string bikini because the strings and thin straps will cut into your skin. If you plan for a sexy photoshoot for a Victoria’s Secret or Sports Illustrated style, I always recommend choosing Brazilian-Cut swimsuits. This is not the time to wear something conservative, traditional, or something you would wear with your family. Choose a sexy, classy, elegant bikini. The best brands carry the best quality; they are stylish and have a modern, sexy, and not wide cut. No full bottom bottoms, please! This is a sexy glamour shoot and not a family shoot. You are in Miami, where less is more, and if you want your butt to look bigger, wear a tiny cut bottom so that the curve of your bottom is easier to be captured in the photos. Remember that all posted images are edited, and together with my lights and photography, you will look fabulous!


9) Buy/bring the wrong lingerie to your shoot for your body type

You need to know your body type to wear the right lingerie and outfits to best balance your look. Not all lingerie styles look the best on all body types and knowing which kind of lingerie to wear can make all the difference, especially for your glamour photoshoot. Fashion experts today have created 11 categories to give you more precise advice when choosing your best lingerie. Are you an Apple, Pear, Long Torso, Hourglass, Short Torso, Ruler, Carrot, Ballerina, Busty, Small Chest, or a Petite body type woman? Read the full article on women's Body Type here to know what goes with you.


10) Ask your photographer for a Sunset Beach Shoot here in Miami

Remember that the sun rises in the East, and so here in Miami Beach, we have only Sunrise beach shoots but no Sunset beach shoots. The Sun at sunset is behind the Miami downtown buildings, and the lighting on the beach is very melancholy and not colorful. A Sunrise Beach shoot is fantastic because you don't have to worry about it turning dark in the next 15 minutes, but it does mean very early setups if you want to have a Sunrise Beach shoot. We would need to be at the beach ready to shoot by 5:30 am during the summer hours. The best times to shoot at the beach, in general, is early morning or late afternoon when the sunlight's angle is more flattering and the lighting is softer. Remember you will need clear skies and low winds, so please check the Miami Beach weather and with me a few days before your shoot.
What to know more about sexy facial expressions for your shoot? Read my blog on how to achieve a Sexy Facial Expression here.

5 things to never do before a photo-shoot.

1) Go on a Crash-Diet to lose a few quick pounds.

Food is energy, and posing takes energy. If you are not used to posing, you will notice that it does take work to hold glamorous poses, especially while trying to keep a pleasant facial expression. Trying to lose a few quick pounds right before your shoot will only leave you with low energy, hungry, and with a little patience. Plus, and the difference will not be noticeable. One thing that the camera does pick up is your mood. But, I know what you are thinking; if I eat, my belly will show. Know this: I will pose you in positions where your body looks the best, and in combination with the lighting, I can edit your body, but I cannot edit your expression or low energy. You are perfect the way you are now! A photoshoot is not a 10-minute weigh-in that you are in and out of. This is at least a half-day event from start to finish between the hair & makeup and getting ready.

2) Stop drinking water/fluids because you don’t want to be bloated.

Unless you are a professional bodybuilding athlete and will be shooting for a muscle magazine, you should never try to lose water weight before a shoot. Water keeps your body functioning right, and together with proper eating and rests, water helps your skin and face looking fresh. If your shoot is outside or at the beach, the heat here in Miami Beach is overwhelming, especially if you are not used to standing in the sun for a long time. You will feel dizzy and weak if you are poorly hydrated, and it will be more challenging to hold your poses and have a pleasant expression. Plus, you can even faint. I have had it happened to a girl I was shooting. She banged her head when she fainted.

3) You are in South Beach, so hit the clubs and the drinks and stay up all night. The make-up artist will not come till 6:30 am so you have plenty of time to party!

No, no, no! If you read points 1 and 2, you will have already figured out why you need to be well-rested and feel healthy and strong for your photoshoot. If you are shooting at the beach, you will have an impossible time trying to keep your eyes open. This is the number 1 most common challenge with my beach shoot is girls not able to open their eyes at the beach even if it’s in the shade. If you have sensitive eyes, you need to rest even more before your beach/outdoor shoot.

4) Apply a Self-Tanning lotion before your shoot because you look too pale.

Applying Self-tanning cream/lotions on your skin look terrible in digital photos. They leave an orange tone on your skin that looks un-human, and it isn't very easy to correct. Plus, your skin will look plastically because the self-tanning cream/lotion covers the natural skin glow. Also, self-tanning cream/lotion rubs off on your clothes, and anything you touch or lay on –it‘s a big mess! And, your face will not match your body. It’s better to look pale and human than orange (unless you are impersonating Donald Trump). Instead, tan yourself one week before the shoot 3-4 times at the beach or at a tanning spa to achieve a natural tan color, but don’t overdo it and show up with red skin or face! Instead, you do nothing than risk having a sunburn for your shoot. If you are too pale, the best option is to have a professional spray tan, but you must follow their steps and preparations to have good results for a photoshoot.

5) Do not shave/wax or get a fresh manicure and pedicure.

The photoshoot is about you looking the very best and glamorous. This includes some pre-shoot preparations. Yes, have a fresh manicure and pedicure. The camera will pick up that your nails need to be filled in and that you have not shaved in your delicate areas in several days. To look beautiful, it’s all in the details from your head to your toes. When you look at a luxury product, it doesn't have cheap parts. It's well made of the finest products in all details. These details on a woman include being freshly wax or shaved under your underarms, legs, and bikini area. WebMD recommends: “To avoid irritation, don't work out or wear tight clothing immediately after grooming. Skin can be extra-sensitive to bacteria, moisture, and chafing from your workout clothes.” You should shave the day before to help prevent developing a rash.

Now that you have these five tips, you are better prepared for your next photoshoot.


There's more: click here to read: 5 MORE things to Never do before your Photo-shoot

Are Professional Photos Really Worth the Investment?

For this post, I interviewed web designer/webmaster David Allen from David has over 25 years of industry experience specializing in escort websites and adult model marketing. So, I know he talks from experience.

What's your professional recommendation when it comes to photos on any website?

Get the best photographer you can afford! From all my year's building sites, I can tell you that my job just became much easier when you have excellent photography. It's simple. The better the images are, the better your site can look. I can create the best custom state-of-the-art website in the world, but a bad photo will still look bad no matter how nice a site you have. Although an amateur might take a good snapshot, a professional has additional skills like posing, lighting, and Photoshop to ensure the perfect result. Having great images on your site can make a massive difference to your conversion rate, and ultimately the income your website will generate.

1) It shows you are serious about your business

Nothing says amateur like blurry, poorly lit, bad photos. And who wants to do business with an amateur? Pro Photos show that you are a serious business, and your customers will see the value in what you are charging for your product or service. The top charging escorts always use high-quality photography that complements their websites. Every serious escort business needs a great website, and I would argue that you can't have a great website without great photography.

2) Helps your business stand out

The online market is now highly competitive, not like when I started building websites 25 years ago. In the current digital age, you need any edge you can get. Online potential clients are bombarded with over 5,000 images every day, and the average attention span has dropped down to less than 8 seconds. That's all the time you have to make an impression, and regular photos are just not going to cut it.

Pro Photos stop people in their tracks and capture the attention of your visitors. You want your potential clients to pause and take a closer look. This is why you must choose escort photography specializing in the type of glamour photography you'll like to show on your site. If the photos make you stop and look, it will also make your clients stop and look at you.

3) Defines your Target Clients and sets the mood for them.

They say a picture is worth 1000 words, and this is still true and even more crucial when it comes to an escort's site. As an escort, you are selling a fantasy to men, and a man's fantasy starts with what he first sees. Which fantasy do you want to set in your potential client's mind?

High-quality professional luxury images will evoke a feeling of your escort service being exclusive. In contrast, bad/regular photos will evoke a sense of cheap escort service to your potential clients.

The quality of the photos you use will directly reflect the quality of the service your clients will expect to receive and also the amount they are willing to invest in your escort service.

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FOSTA: The Law and how it affects us all

President Trump signed into law on April, 11th 2018, the bill, nicknamed “FOSTA” for its title, “Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. This new law gives States and the US government greater power to prosecute websites that host sex-trafficking ads. Victims and state attorneys general can now file lawsuits against these sites. On April 3, 2018, the US government arrested executives from on a 93-count indictment that alleges that the website facilitated prostitution and laundered tens of millions of dollars in profit. For years teenage girls, including minors, were advertised and sold for sex on the Backpage site. Some girls were forced into prostitution and killed by the men they met from the Backpage ad.

The FBI took action against Backpage's executives and shut down Backpage’s classified ad websites around the world, and moved to seize houses and bank accounts around the United States days before the bill became law, which led some to question why FOSTA was needed if such action was able to be taken without it.

“FOSTA gives prosecutors the tools they need,” said Rep. Ann Wagner (R- Mo.), chief sponsor of the bill, “to ensure that no online business can ever approach the size of Backpage again.” Civil liberties activists criticized the bill as too broad, creating a new disadvantage for websites that had previously been protected by the Communications Decency Act for content posted by third parties. Several sites, such as Craigslist, began shutting down sections that might be seen as sex-related after the bill passed the Senate last month. Rep. Wagner said online sex-related advertising revenue had declined 87 percent in the past 60 days, even before the president signed the law.

Supporters for sex workers say that by shutting down adult content ad sites, FOSTA deprives sex workers of a safe place to screen customers and removes a tool for law enforcement to track pimps, locate missing children, and build criminal cases.

“Shutting down every service provider and website will not end sex trafficking,” said Jean Bruggeman, executive director of Freedom Network USA, a coalition of anti-trafficking advocates. “What it will do is push traffickers to overseas websites that are beyond the reach of law enforcement, making it harder to prosecute them and harder to find them through the victims.”

Horror stories from websites such as Backpage, in which young girls were trafficked for months or even years, created a wave of frustration that the websites couldn’t be forced to stop hosting the ads and that the victims couldn’t sue the sites for damages. The federal indictment of Backpage officials described one girl who was prostituted on Backpage from ages 14 to 19, saying she was gang-raped, choked to the point of seizures, and forced to perform sex acts at gunpoint.

Internal emails captured by the FBI demonstrated that Backpage officials edited ads or advised customers how to write their ads so that words indicating that a person was a “teen” or “young” or “fresh” were substituted. Yet, the ad itself would remain online, and the victim still prostituted.

The report issued by the Senate committee in January 2017 boiled with anger, declaring that “Backpage knows that it facilitates prostitution and child sex trafficking” and that “Backpage’s public defense is a fiction.” An investigation by The Washington Post found that Backpage was not only deeply involved in creating ad content but also soliciting prostitutes from other websites to advertise on Backpage. The FBI later obtained documents, and prosecutors cited them in the new indictment as evidence that “Backpage often affirmatively creates the content of the illegal prostitution ads being published.”

So in April 2017, Rep Ann Wagner (R- Mo.) introduced FOSTA in the House. Sen. Rob Portman (R-Ohio), who had overseen the Senate investigation of Backpage, introduced SESTA — the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act — last August. Sen. Ron Wyden (D-Ore.), one of the original authors of the Communications Decency Act, was one of the two “no” votes, saying it was a mistake to change the law and would have unforeseen consequences for the Internet.

FOSTA amends the “Mann Act,” prohibiting interstate prostitution, by adding a new section prohibiting using a website to “promote or facilitate the prostitution of another person.”

FOSTA also amends the law on sex trafficking of children to clarify “participating in a venture” as “knowingly assisting, supporting or facilitating a violation” of the law.

FOSTA also amends the law on sex trafficking of children to clarify “participating in a venture” as “knowingly assisting, supporting or facilitating a violation” of the law.

And FOSTA creates the ability for state attorneys general to bring civil suits against violators of federal prostitution laws.

Critics still feel the new law creates too many opportunities for lawsuits against websites for the content they didn’t post and didn’t know about. Lola, a community organizer with Survivors Against SESTA, commented that this is literally a life-or-death law for sex workers. “I know so many people who were able to start working indoors or leave their exploitative situations because of Backpage and Craigslist,” she said. “They were able to screen for clients and keep themselves safe and save up money to leave the people exploiting them. And now that those sites are down, people are going back to pimps. Pimps are texting providers every day saying ‘the game’s changed. You need me.’”

“That’s the difficult position a FOSTA law puts operators in,” Llansó said, creating reluctant censorship by sites fearful of liability. Ads by sex workers are already closing and moving to less well-known or dark websites, said Kimberly Mehlman-Orozco, an author and expert witness of human trafficking. Or they’re moving to social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter, “where they’re able to hide under the veneer of a legitimate social media account,” she said.

As a result of this new law, TER has block access to their website from the United States until the law has been repealed or amended, or TER has found a way to sufficiently address any legal concerns created by the new law. TER is not alone in responding to this threat to your First Amendment Rights: Craigslist has pulled all of its Personal Ads, Reddit has closed many Subreddits and sites such as CityVibe and Men4RentNow have gone completely dark. Other websites have taken or are expected to take similar actions. Adult provider site Eros has self-censored the content and images they now allow in their ads leading to many ads and images being deleted.

It's still not clear how the FOSTA law will be enforced to limit online ads. Only time will tell if this is just the start of more to come. 

You can now update your photos with classy glamour images that adhere to the new Eros standards posted on mainstream social media accounts.  

How to become a Top Companion

Have you noticed that there always seems to be a few top providers in your area that every client wants to book for an encounter? In big market areas, there could be more, but in either case, these few elite companions are booking the majority of the clients and their business. What’s more interesting is that it doesn’t seem to matter which type of girl a client appears to be into. He wants to see these exclusive top providers next and ASAP.

What's so unique about these top providers? So, what does it take to be a first-class companion? What's their secret? The way they market and advertise their companion business. Because there’s a right way, and there’s also the wrong way to brand your provider business.

Let's first cover a few basic marketing terms so that we are all on the same page.

To Skip Marketing Basics and Jump to the LUXURY MARKETING STRATEGY, click here.

Marketing - The process of developing, promoting, selling, and distributing a product or service to a target audience.

Advertising - A form of marketing communication used to persuade an audience to buy your product or service. Advertising involves a message you send to a target audience and a medium to convey the message.

Branding - The development and use of symbols like logos to convey the identity of a company, product, or service. Branding is the big picture of your product's or service's identity. It’s how people feel when they think about your service or product. It helps get potential buyers to remain loyal to you. Branding involves collecting things a target audience expects and experiences, combined with the workings of all the brand elements, including fonts, colors, logos, tagline, or brand.

Let’s take a look at the major contributing factors and ways to communicate your brand identity. Logo and Name – Your logo and name are often the first things people see, and they work primarily as a visual representation of your name. “Brand Recognition” usually refers to people recognizing your logo or your company name. Still, brand-building encompasses more than that because, in brand-building, the focus is on what people will think of and how they will feel when they hear or see your name.

Atmosphere – Think of Starbucks; what does it make you think of? Wood-paneled décor, warm yellow lighting, comfy seating, and the cozy smell of coffee, right? What about McDonald's? Bright colors, bright lights, play areas, and a whimsical-looking clown. Consider what you want your clients to think of and experience when deciding on your décor and environment for your encounters.

Advertising, Branding, and Trust

Let’s examine this through the lens of a personal relationship. In the two scenarios below, let’s say that your brand is you; your product is a cup of coffee, and your customer is your friend:

Scenario A: You call up your friend and ask them to come over because you have a cup of coffee you’d like them to purchase. Most likely, your friend will feel you were only interested in making a deal; that you (the brand) don’t really care about them, their feelings, or their experience – because you’re clearly placing your product and profit before your relationship with them. What’s missing here? A genuine brand relationship.

Scenario B: You ask them to come over for a cup of coffee because you want to visit with them, engage in conversation and enjoy some warm and cozy time together. In this instance, you’re making the relationship between you and how your friend will feel when they engage with you more important than the product – and you are experienced as a trusted and genuine person (brand).

The bottom line is to consider the many ways that your brand goes beyond colors, logo design, or a jingle to provide the experience and feeling your consumer is seeking. Once you clearly identify who your ideal customer is and what they need and are specifically looking for, you can pinpoint what your brand should be doing to gain your customer’s trust and deliver what they want. Once you do, your business’ brand can generate loyal followers who will keep coming back for more.

Mass Marketing Strategy vs. Luxury Marketing Strategy.

Mass Marketing Strategy

A mass marketing strategy is just what it sounds like it is. It's is a strategy where you market and advertise your product or service to target everyone possible - the masses. Mass marketing is useful when you want to reach as many people as possible. You want to sell quantity, not necessarily quality. Since this strategy is for when you want to target everyone, it’s used for products and services everyone needs to survive and function in society. The type of products and services you would mass market includes basic foods, housing, necessary clothes, essential hygiene products, electrical services, transportation, cell service, internet, essential tools, etc. Therefore, a mass marketing strategy is good to promote products or services that solve basic needs and real-world problems. Stores marketed for the masses include Walmart and Home Depot, and services include your power company and public transportation. Nothing needs to be fancy, as long as it does the job. What matters most to the consumer is that it works and, most importantly, the price. If your photos are selfies or look amateur, you are attracting your business's mass market.

Marketing to Men vs. Women

Men and women, in general, are not motivated to buy by the same factors. Women are more touchy-feely, and men are more functional and practical. A woman might love a product for its color and cuteness, while a man will like it if it’s durable regardless of the color. Therefore, men tend to be more practical and rational when buying products and services than most women. A man's natural mental process is: what will do the job for the least possible cost? Unless he’s informed through the right marketing, a man doesn't care much about how the product or service will make him feel. He will just look at the best buy for the price – the best bang for his buck. A man values the quality of the product or service and not if it comes in rose-gold.

For example, a businessman takes a few vacation days to Miami Beach, but he forgets to pack his sunglasses for his trip. Solution: he goes to the nearest souvenir shop and buys a pair of sunglasses that fit, look ok, and are cheap. The sunglasses are not what's important to him on his vacation trip. He is only thinking of the one function he needs them for. He just wants something that will block out some of the sun's rays and help him keep his eyes open after the late flight last night while he checks out the women around Ocean Drive and the beach. At the moment, he doesn't care much about the brand. Any brand will do as long as it does the job. His primary deciding factor is their function and price. Don't be the cheap sunglasses provider if you want to make it to the top.

Now, think about your ads and website. Are you marketing your companion service to the masses of men? Sounds like the right thing to do, no? Why not try to target all the men with your ad? However, most men do not care much about which girl he has an encounter with as long as she meets his basic expectations and needs – function and price. He wants to spend the least amount of money possible. Again, he wants the most bang for his buck.

Unfortunately, there are many similar companions in this mass-market provider world with many similar characteristics that offer similar services at similar prices. The competition is fierce, and if you are promoting your business this way, you are in the back seat, or worst, sometimes you are just trying to get in the provider business car.

Luxury Marketing Strategy

Luxury is the state of high comfort and extravagant living. Luxury appeals to and feeds our desires, fantasies, and lust. You don’t need luxury, but you want it. Luxury is subjective, and it appeals to the five senses to deliver incredible emotional benefits. Luxury is highly desirable because they are exclusive, sophisticated, of unique quality, and in good taste. People buy luxury products to feel unique and apart from the crowd, feel superior and privileged, and feel valued and important.

The successful provider has everything to do with luxury. She appeals to the man’s deep desire to break with his daily routine and to provide him with the illusion of happiness, at least for during the encounter.

A luxury provider should provide an experience that is refined aesthetic and conveys sensuality, indulgence with a hint of the extravaganza. In a luxury provider's fantasy world, a man feels sexier, more powerful, and more content than in his daily world. A luxury provider can transform a man’s self-perception and leave him feeling - not ordinary but extraordinary!

So, how do you market yourself as a luxury provider and not just another provider?

To be a luxury companion, you must look and act like a luxury companion. Yes, your looks and personality are critical, but you can create a brand of yourself that is irresistible to all men through proper marketing.

Use these tips to become the companion everyone wants to meet:

Always Post Amazing Ads (marketing & branding)

Remember that your ads are there to persuade your target clients to know more information about you either by calling you or going to your site. The wording in your ads is a work in process, and you need to adjust it depending on what works continuously. Don’t just state a physical description. It would be best to communicate what is different about you and how your client will feel when he is with you. You need to have a balance between not too long and not enough information. Keep track of which ads work, and if it stops getting the same success in a few weeks, you need to try new wording. You must consistently update your profile. An effective ad and site profile should include a professional description of yourself. It should provide insight that speaks directly to your target clients. Share some of your tasteful, appropriate innermost thoughts or feelings without revealing too much. Within the profile, you must also tell your client why he should book you. Whether that’s because you provide individualized attention or special tricks you learned from a courtesan, it really doesn’t matter, as long as it’s something your client will want to experience. Guide his mind away from reality into the fantasy world you will take him to, and let him know how an encounter with you will leaving him feeling. Sensual moments of pleasure are worth paying more: well-being, health, youth, and indulgence.

Men are visual

They need to first fall for you through your photos before they start reading your ad and consider contacting you. So your photos are his first impressions of you. You will need to post not just great images but the right style of photos in both your ad and on your site. Hire a professional photographer that specializes in provider photography, and post only the polished, edited images. As you work on perfecting your ads, be sure to emphasize your shape and personality through the photos you post and include them in your marketing. An experienced photographer will know how to capture your best angles through the proper poses and lighting. The quality and style of the photos play a crucial role in targeting your luxury clients. Ever see a mediocre photo used to advertise a luxury product? A luxury product uses exceptional quality in every detail. The same should apply to you- your brand from your head to your toes. If you want to market yourself as a luxury provider, all of your photos need to be consistent in quality and style. (The photos should not be pornographic – they can show off your figure in other ways.). Men who seek top companions want to feel that you are highly turned on only with them or take a special kind of man to bring out your wild side.

Your photos are only as good as your worst photo.

A man will be impressed by your best photos but will also remember your worst ones. Avoid the tendency to want to post too many images of similar poses unless they have something new to offer visually. Less is more. It’s better to have eight excellent photos than 20 or more with a few images that do not communicate the same level of luxury and sex appeal. Do not post any picture that is not a 10, even if you can’t afford professional photos. Research online about taking better glamour photos that are flattering until you can afford to invest in a professional glamour photoshoot. Learn to utilize simple photo editing software to minimize some of the flaws in your photo. Experiment with different angles that catch your best sides, being ever mindful of concealing your face if you’re not comfortable with revealing your identity. In addition to covering your face, flattering photos can help disguise any less appealing areas such as a small tummy pouch, as long as your overall figure is not deceiving. Your outfits and background location in your photos also need to send the same luxury, exclusive, sensual message. The professional photographer will also guide you on the styling so that it projects the luxury style. You can also hire a stylist so that you don't have to stress over having the right outfits and accessories and so that your shoot is all better planned.

Keep yourself in good physical condition but embrace yourself.

Make exercise and fitness a priority if you do not do so already, and always eat a healthy diet. A healthy diet is a lifestyle. It's not temporary. Most women do not eat enough protein or fiber, and the typical American diet includes too many carbs. Yes, we need carbs for energy, but we also need enough protein and fiber. Part of your good physical condition also includes stamina and endurance. As you grow more fit, your endurance for your clients' activities also increases, which is a win-win for both of you. Some clients prefer a lean woman; others like the muscle look on a woman; others want a woman to be fit and somewhat toned. While other men are totally into the super curvy women, don't try to be what you are not. Be the best you, you can be. It all starts with accepting yourself and loving the body you have. Read more about embracing yourself: To get that shape, work out doing cardio exercises and then focus attention to build your booty. If you’re not a busty provider, don’t worry about it. If you are a curvy woman, embrace that and use your best assets in your favor. Choose some lingeries that fit perfectly for your body type: read more here: Practice elegant, sexy poses in front of the mirror. Search for Ashley Graham on Google images as an example. Remember to market the experience the man will have with your encounter and not just your measurements.

A smile is a universal facial expression that communicates happiness, and men like to be around happy women.

Men want to escape the demand and reality of work to a time of relaxed pleasure. A smile can also signal a sign of confidence or agreement. Although women smile more than men, older women smile less than younger women, so if you want to show your youthful side, remember to smile often, especially when you meet your client. Many providers think they have to be sullen, pouty, and lusty-faced in their photos and person all the time. Clients want to visit with companions who are happy and enjoyable to be around. When you project this through your photos in your marketing, it’s a direct way to allow clients to discover that an encounter spent with you will be a good time. A smile can speak volumes about your personality and is the best addition to your profile information you can have. If your profile teases the potential client about your sense of humor and attraction to fun, your smile guarantees it. If your profile suggests you’re a smart ass, your smile will confirm it. A profile that informs the client you are sweet and kind is validated further with a charming grin. Successful men read lots into the smile you give them; if you don’t show your face in your ad, try showing just your lips.

The companions every client wants to book all have great attitudes.

A predominantly negative companion about everything in her life, including her clients, isn’t going to attract much business, especially when word about her outlook becomes known. Professional Men are drawn to women who are upbeat, happy, and passionate. They want to spend time with a female who embodies youthful inspiration and optimism. Even if this is difficult for you to master, you need to find a way to project this to clients. After all, you are playing a role as a companion. Dig deep within yourself and find your always-optimistic young woman as a way to push yourself to be a happier provider. The “it” companions of the moment are likely one who consistently makes her clients feel like they are her favorites and that she loves spending time with them. To become more popular, you must translate your enthusiasm for clients to a passion for them they understand. Don’t indulge in self-criticism or disparaging comments against yourself. When clients book encounters, they don’t want to spend time building a companion up to feel proud of themselves; they want one who is instantly ready to dole out the attention on them.

Confidence equates with Sexiness.

Confidence is a huge factor in becoming the coveted provider. When a woman is sure of herself, that comes across as a sign to men that she will be great in bed and that she’s someone you want to get to know. Confidence is more important than the size of her breast, or ass, or the narrowness of her waist. Experts always tell people to “fake it until you make it,” and this piece of advice rings true for companions, too. If you’re not entirely sure of yourself or maintain doubts about your clients' abilities, hide them and pretend they don’t exist. Focus on being the best you can be, showcasing your beauty to the max, and providing the most fulfilling experiences for clients possible. If you believe in yourself, clients will, too. It’s a contagious thing that you can control through projecting self-esteem and contentment with yourself. Practice your confident look in front of the mirror, with friends, and on strangers, you meet throughout your normal day until it becomes so natural you do it all of the time.

Give some examples and a few details.

Even though you may focus on your clients, you must tell them you do in your profile so they know this. And, it’s not enough to blatantly say you provide “client-focused” services. You must explain through examples how you cater to your clients and their needs. Demonstrate that you are concerned with pleasing your clients in ways they want. Ensure potential clients that their comfort and pleasure are your priority.

Emphasize to clients that you are willing to go the extra mile to make them happy. Companions who succeed at high levels provide personalized experiences that are far from hum-drum or typical. They veer from the “usual” to make their clients happy through special requests. Tell briefly about your efforts, so other clients know you will go above and beyond for their desires. You will need to provide details about this in your profile and marketing materials for clients to fully understand the extent to which you are willing to go to make them happy. Many providers claim this same approach, but they provide no evidence. Think of an example where you made extra effort to give your client something special he wanted. Maybe you made him a birthday cake and sang to him while you were naked. Or, perhaps you worked out a role-play scenario a client had been fantasizing about.

Listen to your clients.

A provider who is highly sought after by clients listens to them during encounters. Some clients just want a companion who makes them feel important and significant. You can calmly do this by listening to them. (This is much different than only hearing them; listening means interacting and responding appropriately to questions or comments the encourage them to continue to share.) Many men lack someone who really listens to them, and a companion who fills this role becomes invaluable, creating a regular client with a weekly timeslot, possibly. Find the ability within yourself to allow your clients to share their stories, concerns, and joys with you; the knack of drawing this out of people can be challenging to develop unless you start with an attitude that your client is the most important person at that moment. Communication skills can skyrocket a provider to success. If you’ve done everything else right to get your clients to book encounters with you, it can be damaged irreparably if you don’t follow through with good communication efforts. It would be best if you teased them through your conversations, enticing them further to book with you. Create a tasteful, sexually charged exchange of communication that provides precise details about the encounter, location, time, and what to expect. Let your client know about any ground rules, including your insistence on discretion. Your communications leading up to the encounter can set the stage for an exciting event or downplay a client’s excitement for meeting you.

A luxury is unforgettable and worth waiting for

A Top companion markets herself as the best around because she feels she is. When you tell clients something repeatedly, they will begin to believe it. By putting information in your profile or other marketing materials that indicate you are top-rated, most preferred, or simply the best, you inject mental attitudes about yourself into your clients’ brains. Encourage them to think of you as upscale by labeling yourself as “exclusive” and limiting your availability. (A luxury companion isn’t available every time a client tries to book.) Charge rates make your clients believe you are not the run-of-the-mill companion because men always want the best. Appealing to their desire for quality may earn a higher level of success if you use these tips.